- The reasons for the vagaries of eating
- How to calm a baby
What to do if the baby is nervous while feeding? Breastfeeding is a science.
Despite the fact that both the mother and the baby are congenital reflexes providing full feeding to mother’s milk, they still need experience and training.
A big role for good lactation is played by the pose at the moment feeding.
Many problems, including inappropriate child behavior, associated with violation of the rules of feeding.
According to psychologists, when feeding a baby in an uncomfortable position lactation disorders may occur, as well as a break in psychological contact mother-child.
How to help a crying baby? It is important to distinguish when a situation parents can correct, and when – only doctors.
If the baby is rarely naughty, mom has enough patience to withstand his crying. But if the situation repeats at each feeding, staying calm is not easy, especially if it night feeding of the baby. The quicker you can identify why the baby is nervous during feeding, the easier it will become family.
Causes of moods while eating
Moms have a lot of fears and prejudices when feeding: “not that ate “,” little milk “,” it is empty “, etc. .. Run in a panic for a mixture is not the best solution.
Doctors have the term “failing behavior.” True rejection feeding should be distinguished from age-related characteristics with which related incomprehensible behavior of the baby.
From 3 to 6 months, children are very curious, they are distracted from breasts are any irritant. If the baby is calm, mom too no need to worry: he compensates for the daily norm of milk at night.
- Illiterate child applied to the chest. Not all babies take it right from birth breast, so mom should teach the baby to grab the nipple with areola, choose a comfortable position for the head yourself, eat quickly, do not swallow air and do not sleep while feeding. Milk rush provides only the correct pressure with the lips and gums on the nipple and areola. If the baby has taken the breast incorrectly, the appearance of cracks in the nipple, reducing the amount of milk. Sometimes like that training takes more than one week.
- Wrong posture. After birth, the newborn is fed in bed. with a pillow to raise the headboard. Mom lies on her side, and the baby is at her shoulder. After restoration of health, they are fed and sitting, substituting a small stool under the foot with the working chest. Poses are selected individually, you can change them during the day. Head should not tip over, as this makes it difficult to suck.
- Short frenum of tongue. This reason is revealed in the hospital, since it’s difficult for the baby to grab the chest and is nervous. If they didn’t fix it right away, you should consult a surgeon or dentist to cut the bridle.
- Confusion of the nipples. If the baby is familiar with the pacifier and the dummy, he may confuse them with breasts. When sucking a breast or nipples with a bottle different muscles work. When grabbing your chest, you need to strain more, so once you try the bottle, he can get nervous, that milk does not pour out of the breast. The kid will have to be taught to take again chest.
- Abdominal pain. In the first half of the year, the digestive organs of the baby not fully formed. Swallowing air while sucking, he accumulates gases causing colic. Calmly take food crumbs pain interferes: he is naughty, tightens his legs, refuses chest, rumble is heard in his stomach.
- Teething. The appearance of primary teeth is a difficult period and for babies, and for the whole family. Inflamed gums distract with sucking, because a familiar and pleasant process now accompanies itching and painful sensations. As a result, the entire period of feeding the baby can to act up.
- Inflammation in the mouth. With thrush, the baby should be fed with spoons, cups, syringe, since the mucous membrane of the oral cavity in this the period is very sensitive. If thrush is not treated, appetite the baby is falling. He loses weight, and this despite the fact that at this age for normal development, he needs good nutrition.
- Respiratory infection. Satellite of any ARVI – filled nasopharynx, making breathing more difficult. It can be a cause of bad sleep, whims for any reason. When feeding, the nose is blocked, baby breathing through the mouth, neither the strength nor the possibilities are enough for food.
- Not enough amount of food. Very tight breasts make the baby apply all the strength to get food. If the appetite is increased, lack of milk will cause tantrums. Such a breast must be developed correctly put the baby in the nipple. If milk flow just slowed down, don’t Hurry to apply to the other chest. The most valuable thing is the fat back milk, “so another breast should be given when the first empty, but the crumbs are not full.
- Too much milk is also bad: the baby is nervous during bottle feeding, when it flows quickly, the baby does not have time swallow it and choke. As a result, instead of focus on feeding, he starts to get nervous. If a lot mother’s milk, the child should be applied more often so that there is no strong pressure. You can express a little milk. Important not to reinforce lactation with a cup of tea or a hot shower.
- Loud noises. Many noises that adults have long been accustomed to can scare the baby. This does not mean that you need to arrange special conditions in the form of sound insulation in the nursery. But if the baby got nervous, do not insist on food again. Let him a little calm down, you can hold it in your hands, sing a song and eventually continue feeding.
- The taste of milk. Breaking a diet by a nursing mom can greatly change the taste of milk. Such changes are very frustrating newborns, so for lactation, mothers need to monitor their diet, avoiding exotic dishes and spicy seasonings. AT the period of critical days, the taste of milk may vary, but it does not should be a reason for not breastfeeding. In 2-3 days the baby’s appetite will be restored.
How to calm a baby
What can you eat while breastfeeding so that the baby does not naughty.
Practical advice: what to do when the baby bends back and throws back his head. The situation with the vagaries of the child during food provoke:
- Strict feeding regimen;
- Limiting the time of attachment to the chest;
- Inadequate stay of the baby in the arms of the parents;
- The use of dummies;
- Various stresses: separation from mom when leaving maternity leave for work, massage or active gymnastics, moving to another place of residence, etc ..
Mom, like no one else, knows her child and is capable of distinguish between the types of crying. Approach to restoring confidence children must be comprehensive:
- Keep calm. When adults are excited, on an intuitive level, baby is feels and also shows anxiety. Therefore for starters parents need to calm down.
- Maintain bodily contact. It is important for the baby constantly Feel safe in your mother’s warm and native hands. For this it can be hugged, stroking the back, swinging in your arms. Wear crumb on itself using a sling.
- We feed the baby on demand, and not on schedule. We organize a joint day and night sleep.
- Humming lullabies. A calm melodious song can switch the attention of the child from a problem situation to familiar and pleasant vibes of mother’s voice.
- Exclude irritants. If the child is sick, you have to try cure it faster (following all pediatrician recommendations). Difficulties with the feeding process are eliminated: tight breasts must be decant, and if necessary, feed the baby from the bottle, to warn (with a warm diaper compress on the stomach, medicinal means) the appearance of intestinal colic, adjust the diet and mothers, and child. If there are problems with the teeth, cool ointments should be used, rodents, gum massage. If you don’t like diving, eliminate stress loads.
In the first year of life, the baby is not yet ready for experiments, drastic changes. Important to him now calm and safety, and psychological comfort to him provides mom and breast milk.
Whatever the reason the baby is nervous during feeding, there is always a way out of the situation. If a million families by all over the world successfully overcome this period with his baby development, when the baby is nervous during feeding, is it necessary to doubt the possibilities of a million first family?