Each parent can share stories about children
pranks and pranks. The inner voice suggests that through
broken dishes, scattered things and painted wallpaper pass
all children. However, in practice it is difficult to refuse punishment when
the child is naughty. We suggest you to think about the question you need
ли наказывать детей за случайные misdemeanors?
But first story. Little Lisa
there were warm green wool pants in which she loved
go to kindergarten. But after walking through the spring puddles mom
said they need to be washed. Hearing that the pants got dirty,
Lisa carried them into the bath. Only my mother forgot that she was standing still
pelvis with white linen. When it came to washing, it turned out that
the lingerie had time to get a delicate turquoise hue. And only Lysina
the smiley face shone with her mom’s helpful smile. Worth
I punish a child who did not want to do anything wrong?
Answer yourself by reading our tips.
Punish or not punish a child
- Think before you speak. What kind
words you say good or evil? Unfortunately, take them back
no longer work. Take a deep breath and wait a few
seconds before responding to childish prank. (See article
«What kind слова лучше не говорить детям»)
- Remember, things are interchangeable, baby –
not. You do not want your child to think that things
more important to you than him? Cut carpet can be sewn, scratched
furniture – to repair, painted doors – to wash, broken
vase – glue, but return the trust and love of the punished child
much more difficult.
- Disobedience is not a personal attack.
you. If you are already going to kick your ears naughty
the child who broke your favorite and, most importantly, dear
camera, think about whether he did this to spite you. Overwhelmingly
in most cases, children break something, fight with someone or
pranks in any other way not to harm you.
- Leave the room and take it easy.
When emotions are tense, and you can not recover or calm
baby, take a break. Leave the room, call a friend,
count to a hundred or do something else that will calm you and
will allow to talk with the child without unnecessary nerves. (See article
�”What if I scream at the child”)
- Make sure your expectations match.
age of the child. Are you waiting for your four year old
will the baby behave as intelligent as a ten year old? You
think an eight-year schoolboy will perform all your
requirements like a 16 year old teenager? Think about age norms,
to find out what to expect from your child and what you need
- Perhaps later you will laugh at today’s
by the situation. If you learn to laugh
going on, almost any child offense will no longer seem
tragedy. The kid spilled milk all over the kitchen? Preschooler painted
wallpaper in the nursery? Someday such stories will become yours
family bikes, which you will laugh in a circle
friends and relatives. And in the most difficult moments, pick up books
Astrid Lindgren telling about little tomboy Emile from
- Remember yourself at his age. And also
better ask your parents to remind you how you were
childhood. Surely the tricks of the child will fade in front of your children
pranks. And, perhaps, the circle he has broken will no longer be like this.
- Never forget love
children Of course, it’s hard to think about loving a little
prankster when he painted with a felt-tip pen your new car or
accidentally chopped a crystal vase. However, it is in these moments
your understanding and good attitude need him most.
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Be patient and try not to lose your sense of humor.
After talking with the child, you will understand that in most cases they
it is not the desire to harm that drives, but the discoverer’s instinct,
the desire to invent, and sometimes mere coincidence. Yes, things happen
expensive, and their value is not always measured in money. But
think whether it is worth any, even if an expensive children’s subject
We also read:
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- Is it necessary to punish a child in 3 years: the opinion of parents and
- How not to punish children
- 10 reasons for poor child behavior
- Child rearing style: whip or gingerbread?
- 8 лояльных способов наказания children How to punish
children for disobedience
- 5 alternatives to tell the child “NO”
- 16 ways to make a child happy
Is it possible to punish a child? – Doctor Komarovsky