For young mothers, with the advent of smartphones, life has become
more diverse and more interesting: you can sit on the Internet, make
online shopping, play online games or just chat with
friends in social. networks, and even make money online. But
all this only makes it difficult to look after the child. Sometimes caring for him
and completely fades into the background. Let’s see if it becomes
is this a problem
How young mothers lose themselves
Often there is such a picture: mom has a whole list
affairs that are performed simultaneously. On the stove burns meat,
the phone messenger constantly appear messages from a friend,
open laptop where the next article is written. And at this time you need
also look after the baby who wants attention.
Let us highlight the advantages that employment has among mothers. First of all,
the woman continues to feel herself on maternity leave and
useful – it works, and time for home, and the child grows on
eyes. Secondly, there are additional funds due to
freelance earnings on the Internet. And finally, there is the possibility
distract from everyday problems.
But часто гранandцы стandраются. Scatters the attention that
It is unacceptable when you need to look after the crumbs. On the internet
spending too much time: instead you could play
or take a walk with your child. It becomes difficult to switch from one
tasks for another, because attention dissipates, mom is stronger
tired and in this state it is easy to make mistakes. Ok if
the problem is limited to runaway soup or an error in the text. What if
will the child drop something on his head? Engaging immediately
in several cases, mom doesn’t really do anything,
does not give itself completely.
And what happens to the baby?
The child feels calm and protected only if
when adults are with him. That is why he constantly
requires attention. But просто быть рядом – недостаточно.
What will the baby if he constantly watches as a mom
smiles, looking at the phone, not at him? The child feels it
starts to worry. And adults only begin to annoy crying and
baby cries. And here you need to understand the following: it does not distract you,
and you pay him not enough attention. This is the problem.
If the child sees that the attention of the mother is focused on the smartphone
andлand ноутбуке, малыш остается одandн на одandн со своandм
одandночеством and со своandмand страхамand – он расстраandвается, ведь
pussy sees that mom somehow loves an incomprehensible subject more
a piece of plastic, not his, and is simply beginning to be jealous. therefore
try to allocate time correctly. Install temporary
framework when you give yourself to the baby and when
personal affairs. Go to the Internet while the pussy is sleeping. But in general –
Reconsider your need to hang out on the Internet. After all, often
time is wasted on absolutely useless things.
Pro online stores
One type of Internet addiction is shopping and
constant selection of goods in online stores, their comparison. Sometimes
This is useful, moms buy baby clothes at better prices.
The Internet constantly gives us a choice: what diapers to buy? In which
online store? There is a discount, but there they come to the card
bonuses. To get more profitable and more correct, we start
go deep, search, waste your time. But сам процесс выбора and
comparing things so demanding that all other things go to
second plan. There is a separation from reality, it can be said
absolutely about every person. We are all influenced by the world
spider webs And also – permanent presence in online stores is
труд, к тому же andз-за которого может накаплandваться тревога and
doubt. Anxiety and fear that there is not enough money, and an experience that
can not afford to buy something better.
I want more and more!
No wonder the Internet is called “web” – indeed, delays
and confuses it with lightning speed. Buying one in the store
goods, we want more and more … And for myself, and for the child. After all, everything is under
hand: just click, and it’s done! After ordering cheap
diapers we are thinking about buying beautiful toys. As a result
parents gradually begin to buy a lot of excess. We get
euphoria from online purchases, and let, when goods arrive,
the feeling of joy is no longer that, anyway we rush into online shopping.
There we feel good and calm, tearing ourselves off from reality.
We are addicted. We can not tear ourselves away, we will never get enough of it.
How to handle this?
Pull yourself together. Ask yourself: “Do I really need it?”
consult with relatives. Think how useful is
your pastime on the Internet. Look at the baby: not
does he feel discomfort, does he want to play or just
relax along with the most expensive person.
The most important thing: you should not try to break out of
virtual reality, and less often refer to it. Then the world will be
brighter, you and your child will be great and fun!
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