Constant communication and interaction with
adults and peers is an important condition for the development of psychological
healthy baby. Of course, you must have a special talent
to find a common language with any person. However learn
keep the conversation going with dignity out of conflict situations
almost everyone can acquire acquaintances. Like the rest
skills, communication skills it is advisable to develop with
childhood itself. And in this case, the first assistants – you, dear
Но вначале ценный совет: в борьбе за
sociability is important to know when to stop. You can not put children in
awkward position to force you to carry out your order or
force to acquaint with the kids. Show patience and
sensitivity – only then will the child take the initiative. Sure to
repeat with him the rules of conduct with strangers on the street.
Rules for effective children’s communication
- Expand your baby’s social circle in the second year of life.
It used to be enough interaction with relatives in
home environment. And to two-year-old children of such a limited
spaces for expanding horizons and the need for socialization
extremely not enough.
- Learn when meeting to call yourself and ask for a name.
interlocutor. After a few repetitions, this will enter your offspring.
in the habit. Encourage every attempt to converge with peers on
- During the walk, ask him to ask around.
friend of a boy or girl. This can be done not only
directly, but also through the parents of a friend. A few phrases – and
little friends the next day will not just greet and
say goodbye, and make the first attempts to establish
- Find out what preschool child would like to purchase at the store, and
Ask to voice your choice of the saleswoman. If he is not yet
can overcome shyness and insecurity, do not blame him for
cowardice. Left alone, specify: “Do you want a chocolate bar? WITH
nuts? What purchase will we make tomorrow? Will you help me choose? ABOUT
What will we ask for an aunt at the counter? ”Act the same way in
other public places: in cafe, a zoo, a museum and theater.
- In the children’s team, sharp moments and stormy clarifications
Relationships occur literally at every turn. Not immediately
rush to plant debaters in different corners of the sandbox, give them
time to overcome misunderstandings. Of course, if the situation is not
strained to the limit. Also teach the child not to exacerbate the conflict.
because of the little things, and at the same time, to keep with dignity.
- The three-year-old toddler can (and should) make remarks in
backyard, but with a schoolboy should be interviewed only
tete-a-tete. The same goes for new buddies: preschoolers
can recommend to meet someone, and older children
must independently select a company.
- Do not forget to talk about etiquette and its correct
application. Children should have a clear idea how to communicate with
adult or peer. For example, buddy is enough
say “Hello” and “Bye”, but for a caregiver or a doctor are suitable
more respectful phrases – “Hello”, “All the best”.
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talking on the street with strangers
Communication skills are formed, including, in the game
activities. Not every entertainment promotes sociability,
therefore, we list the most necessary.
- Role-playing games
ABOUTни идеально подходят для развития навыков общения. Children,
putting on various “masks”, they are trained to look at
a certain thing from multiple sides, evaluate their behavior and
the actions of others, in the end, try to talk to each other
a friend. WITHамая популярная версия – «Дочки-матери», а также масса
other options: visiting the supermarket, doctor’s reception,
Making home theatrical performances is wonderful and
very useful idea. Such activities liberate, give room for
imagination and creativity. Even if your child first participates in
scenes like a silent viewer, his vocabulary is still
enriched, and the memory becomes stronger. Gradually engage him.
into action: ask questions on a fairy tale, pretend not to
remember the sequels.
- Rule games
Similar exercises, as well as all sorts of competitions instill
assiduity, attentiveness, desire to win and teach
interact with other people. Little kids already
get acquainted with the conditions to be fulfilled: sequence
move the result. Often, kids get upset about losing and even
try to change the principles of the game. At an early age give in
possible, thereby increasing the confidence of his son in himself, however
for the rest do not give in – the rules must be respected!
- Facial expressions and gestures
Before you begin the fun, tell us what you can communicate
not only words, but also movements (we wave our hand) and mimic
means (smile). Picture a clumsy bear, and fidget
will guess, then swap places. WITHтаршие детки обожают
play in the “Association” when leading through gestures and grimaces
beats up any situation or definition.
The meticulous readers will ask if anything is required
develop these same communication skills? Let’s say u
ребенка определенный тип личности, который не подразумевает
desire to interact with a lot of people.
We agree that “breaking” your child is not worth it, but to help
building relationships with the outside world is a must. There are so many
all interesting, useful, unusual, that without
sociability to live sometimes very difficult. Therefore, the task
parents – to teach the little man to scoop this information
in a variety of ways, which means children need to be trained
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