Our children are obedient and tidy only in conversations with
friends and in the photo in social networks where they gently eat healthy food
in a perfectly clean kitchen and smiling make-up mom. In the reality
we do not always follow the rules of a good mother, which no one
will tell. There are a few things that every mom should
stop blaming yourself.
- Not always neat clothes. Small hole
on the pants, pink jumpsuit on your boy, surrendered
relatives from their daughter … Everyone has “for the home” things that
never see in photos.
- Mess in the house. There are moms who can’t
sleep well until the floor is clean. But believe me: if you do not have
time and effort to get out every day, and toys, just
laid out in places, again scattered throughout the apartment, –
believe you are not alone.
- Not the most wholesome food. Broccoli puree,
chicken or turkey steak are good, but stubborn toddler
refuses everything except pasta or sweet cottage cheese. There are
Cases where only the day-old cutlets are left for lunch or
the way you have to eat fast food.
- Difficulties with brushing children’s teeth. By
recommendations of the dentist, it should last at least 5 minutes. BUT
where are the tips on how to handle a 1.5-year-old baby who
Does he even bite his finger? What to do mom: call for help
�”Holder of children” and 5 minutes to brush the teeth of a hysterical baby in
tears? Add a tantrum with tears and think it is worth
whether the daily proper cleaning of the teeth of the child’s nerves and yours too.
It’s easier to just quickly brush one minute, believing that “earlier
people lived without it. ”
- Missed walk. Migraine, absence
mood, full obstruction at work – how among all this highlight
at least a couple of hours to walk with the child. BUT ещё на улице может
be cold or hot. Not every mother walks with her child every day.
4 hours, so you can calm down.
- Bad words with a child. What will break loose from you
when at night you step on a little detail with all your might
constructor? Вряд ли это будет: «BUTх, как мне больно».
To control his speech in such moments is very difficult.
- The whims of the child. Agree, it’s hard for you
to predict that the baby at one time or another will be hysterical?
Such moments can not be predicted. What to say about control and
�”Proper education” during the whims. In such cases, only
возникает желание провалиться под землю, купить всё, что
asks the child to throw him on his shoulder and carry him as far as possible from
people to avoid oblique looks.
- Without makeup and in sweatpants. Sneakers with
jeans or sweat pants, a quick bunch on the head – every mom
will confirm that this is the best “uniform”, especially with restless
as a baby Older kids also don’t have much time left
so the usual 10-minute shower for mom becomes a feat.
- Cartoons. The recipe is simple: turn on 30
minutes cartoons to relax or calmly cook soup. it
indeed, but you are still ashamed of it.
- Wrong mode. Travel, holiday,
arrival of guests or just going to the store – it all deprives the child
daytime sleep. BUT вечером он ложится уже ближе к полуночи. From senior
a relative you get disapproval: “At 10 o’clock in the evening, and
the child is not in bed. ” But in reality, the regime will quickly recover.
without serious consequences.
- Social network. Could you cook for breakfast
Useful cottage cheese casserole and decorate it with fruits from fruits.
To read a child, to sculpt or draw with him. Crochet, teach
foreign languages or master computer programs. But instead
They chose to look through Facebook, Instagram or VK. BUT кто
today is not doing this?
- Violence in education. If you are very tired, then
Can you scream or slap a child? Proponents of the theory
attachments are sure that the kindest can
conscious and patient mom. it не способ воспитания, а
minute weakness of the parent. Just apologize to the child and
say goodbye to guilt.
We also read:
- 10 ways to get rid of the complex “I am a bad mother”
- 10 things for which mother should not blame herself
- How I stopped to consider myself a bad mother: the story of my mother
- 12 strange habits that young mothers “get sick”
- 13 habits that you need to get rid of a young mother
I’m a bad mother? or maternal assessment scale